Hahaha, Ren has not changed in the slightest over the last few years I have knowen him over the net, hahaha.
It dose Irritate me when people squander my pity. Next time how about I just send you flowers planted with Explosive putty for oassis? hehe Get it, Planted???
Ok, lame play on words aside...
My take on all of the points Ren is presenting is opening a conversation a topic about the centimental emotions we get from others. Well Ren... lets discuss.
Renegade_Turner wrote: I'm not going to deride any of you for offering condolences because I appreciate the sentiment, I just wish people would stop looking for empty comforts rather than looking from proper comfort from a loved one.
People need to learn how to be open without needing an internet connection between them and the people they are confessing their emotions to.
Ren, I thought you of all people would realize that all humans are cowards.
We dont tell our Loved ones things because we feel as if we are burdening them with our uselss needs and put there needs before us. Thats why we turn to the Internet, its the modern day God, an allmost physical manifestation of all human minds, why would we not find some comfort there?
Thats also why people in the past turned to religion, to a preacher we could spewl our hearts pains of guilt and our owen selfish suffering that we inflict apone ourselves!
It can be very hard to reach out to others. Some times the closer we get you them, they hurt us and we hurt them, like hedgehogs doing doggy style? Pain... its the feeling that something is not right, we will often lay in stagnation. Sweeping rubblish bags under the carpet than clean it because we let ourselves get over whelmed by the mass of filth, and our pride stops us from asking for help. obviously that was needed to be taken as a metaphore. We Fear moving forward because we are afrade of pain. We often spen a life time running from the facts that cause us more pain in the long run. Its just another way of doing that when it comes to not facing up to a person, why confes your love to some one by singing your love from the rooftops when you could stay in the game of cowering in a corner being the auquid dweeb that one tends to be? The pain of rejection? The fact that our feeling is invalidated by some ones ruthless ability to splurge our hearts open and extinguish the fire within?
Your right, people need to stop being such wimps!
Renegade_Turner wrote:There's no point in feeling sorry for yourself if you think you don't have any friends or family to confide in other than people on an internet forum. Not to say that the sentiments aren't given out of sincerity, they just fall a bit flat due to the emotional disconnection of the text.
Again, ill say we dont tell our Loved ones things because we feel as if we are burdening them with our uselss needs and put there needs before us; and sometimes what they say is useless. Some times we seek another prespective, some times a third person veiw helps us get a better understanding of our situation.
It may be ironic me asking this, but consider it a question from a part of your self asking you, why did you post this here if you knew you woul not be sustained with what you desire?