http://www.csse.monash.edu.au/~jwb/cgi- ... dic.cgi?1C
Web dictionary/translator. Choose "translate words" and paste Japanese text to get the translation of all the phrases the dictionary understands, and guesses at some of those it doesn't. For some words (many? most?) you can also press the play button and hear an audio clip for the pronunciation.
I understand many people use flashcards software to learn Japanese and Chinese.
http://www.flashcardexchange.com/
Choose Japanese from the tag cloud. Choose a card list (e.g. Remembering The Kanji - Lesson 01). When you STUDY it, you're shown first one "side" of the card, e.g. '女'. Then you try to remember the other "side", e.g 'woman'. If you didn't remember the correct answer, you're supposed to click the "incorrect" button, so the program knows that card should be repeated more.
You can also choose "Flashcard Memory" from other options, to get a memory game.
You'll probably want to find a card set with the Japanese symbol, the English translation and a "third side", the pronunciation. The third side is always shown on the second side of the card even if you choose to reverse the order. Otherwise, you might remember the pronunciation aid and not the character: [onna] and not the '女'.
I just found the site while I was trying to remember what the downloadable programs are called, so I don't know if they have audio flashcards.
A book explaining where the symbols come from would also be helpful, because it will allow you to recognize the interplay and the symbols-inside-symbols and the meanings they bring to the symbols, which should help remembering them all. Some examples from Chinese, just because I happened to find them faster, and I've read a bit about Chinese. The following are quotes from the 'net:
The word "scold" (骂, mà) consists of a semantic part "mouth" ( two 口's), and a phonetic indicator 马 (mǎ) that tells how it should be pronounced.
An example of a compound characters is 众 (crowd), which is comprised of three 人 (man). So, "man" + "man" + "man" = "crowd". Another would be "bright" (明), which is "sun" + "moon."
And if you look at the symbol of woman 女 and compare it to man, well, IIRC it's evolved from a symbol "man holding a child".
At least in Chinese, some of the characters are like magnificent puns:
Have you ever seen the Chinese character “福”pasted upside-down on someone’s front door?
The character “福”means “happiness”, or “good fortune”. The Chinese character for upside-down is “倒”, pronounced the same as“到”, which means “arrive”. So when “福”is upside-down, it is“福倒”, which sounds exactly like “福到”, meaning “happiness/good fortune has arrived/will be arriving”.